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  1. It can be hard to know where, or from whom, we should learn. I’m slowly realizing that studying culture in particular may be the best place. Culture shows us what is normal and how some cultures have developed out of shared trauma. For example, people in both Deaf American culture and Black American culture have histories of specific kinds of violence and oppression done to them, which demonstrates why they may not be trusting or find something another culture thinks it as simple (e.g. “I love your hair!”) to be offensive. When one person says that a person from another culture is being too sensitive, what they really mean is they don’t share the same experience, history, or norms.

    1. That’s a very good point Melanie. And that’s always what this comes down to, isn’t it? Understanding that others come from a different experience, shaped by different pasts, beliefs, etc. I’ll always be supportive of those of us who are simply trying to ‘do better’ and be more understanding towards others. Some people may roll their eyes at this, but I don’t see the harm in trying to meet people where they are at, wherever that might be.

  2. I’ve followed Westhead’s writing since her first book and am always interested to see what she’s writing next. My sense is that there’s always at least a small part of her in the characters she creates and explores. They’re always empathetically drawn, even if they’re not exactly relatable or likeable per se.

    In your final thoughts, you seem to be saying that it’s a modern trend, this idea of whether to be open-minded about the idea that how we say/offer things doesn’t mean it’s how other people hear/receive things? But hasn’t that been the case for as long as there have been people? Or does the collection have a kind of ripped-from-the-headlines feel to it, that eludes to more recent events specifically? I guess maybe I’ll have to read it then, sooner rather than later. heheh

    1. It’s a good point you bring up Marcie. Now I have to go back and read my own review!
      It feels like Westhead is trying to point to very timely situations, however what she is truly discussing, is really something that has been happening ever since there were people, and language!

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