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  1. Thank you, Anne. That means a lot to me! I’m always on a crusade for childless people like me, trying to prove that we care about and love children and want a relationship with them, even though we are not parents. Over the years, I’ve lost friends because they had kids and assumed I wouldn’t want to come around anymore. It stings, and also feels…I’m not sure. Exclusive? Like non-parents will never “get it”? But I’ve been a caregiver and I have several children in my life whom I love deeply. It won’t be the same, but I get it. You are lucky in one way: you can call say your kids are assholes without getting in trouble, but people like me can only think it 😂😂😂

  2. You were right to call me out Melanie, I need to pay more attention to that. And I’ve witnessed it too, parents saying other adults just don’t ‘get it’, which I find offensive. Not having children doesn’t make you any less empathetic or in tuned in to what children need. Luckily my non-parent friends and I have stayed closed even after having kids, so I’ve still got a foot in both worlds ;) Also btw I think non-parents are allowed to call kids assholes, it’s usually warranted! LOL

  3. Oh wow, this sounds distressing! Such interesting questions, though… I’m actually tempted to read it. I find questions about nature vs. nurture fascinating.

  4. It is distressing, but incredibly thought-provoking too. My review of the Push coming out in a few weeks deals with a similar subject

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