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  1. This book sounds more like Tampa by Alyssa Nutting that Lolita, and Nutting’s book was based on a real case of a teacher who seduced one of her male students, a teacher whom apparently Nutting had gone to high school with.

    I will say that I’m concerned that the author implies that the women is abusing a teenage boy because she herself was abused. More likely a person who is abused as a child then goes on to be abused by adult partners.

    1. Hmm yah that’s a good point re: the abuse. It’s not an overt implication, I think it’s just another layer to this woman’s story.

  2. This sounds really fascinating. I’ve heard of Babiak before but never read his work. I think it’s actually a good thing to have more of these clearly negative portrayals in fiction because too often when the older woman/younger man is shown it is in the realm of “male fantasy come true”. But it’s still abuse, even when the genders are switched so I’m glad there’s no ambiguity here.

  3. This sounds fascinating. It is interesting that society still reacts so differently to an older woman seducing a boy than to an older man seducing a girl – I expect it’s a throwback to the days when sex resulted in pregnancy for girls and therefore their ‘ruin’, whereas for boys it was seen as ‘experience’. And yes, it was the implicit justification of the predator’s behaviour in Lolita that left me feeling nauseated…

  4. I put this a book aside after maybe 100 pages, not because I didn’t like it, I got distracted. I need to get back to it. I would also draw a closer comparison to Tampa, I think in Lolita it’s all about the unreliable/manipulative narrator, and he’s manipulating the reader as well. In Tampa, it’s also narrated by the abuser, or close third person, can’t quite recall, but she’s much less successful in manipulation. She kinda puts it all out there. Definitely read it if you haven’t, it’s a trip.

    1. You’re the second person to recommend Tampa now! Gosh I’m missing out…

  5. I’ve had this book for a while, but have been misled by the cover until now. I also thought it would be more comedic. I will definitely be more likely to read it now! Have you read his other books? How does it compare?

    1. It’s been awhile since I read the Toby book, so I can’t do an accurate comparison. This book is funny, but that’s not the point of it, yah know?

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